Three miles or about 12 minutes.

29 miles North of SeaTac using I-405, or 50 minutes to an hour and 15 minutes...Depending on traffic.

Yes! If you are flying from/connecting through Denver you can fly into Paine Field (PAE) in Everett. United & Frontier fly non-stop. There are also rental cars available. Paine Field is 13 miles from Bothell.

Yes! Alaska Airlines is the only way to fly. The Alaska flight leaves Omaha at 3:06pm and arrives in Seattle at 4:47pm. I recommend flying in the day before (Oct 9th) so you don't miss the Wedding Eve party on the 10th. Or fly a different airline that will get you in earlier on October 10th via a connection.

McMenamins is a large property. The party will be in the Patty Murray Room and also Andy's Room...Ask any staff person and they'll point you in the right direction. If you're not directionally challenged the rooms are in the SW corner of the property.